Day 19  365 days is a long time

Starting a new adventure and having a year to do it in is a long time and commitment.  Sometimes, I find it difficult to always act in love and kindness to another.  It can wear after a while as not everyone as stated in a previous blog is looking out for another's well being.  Sometimes, kindness or the act of being nice to another is important in the grand scheme of who we are and what we believe.  I have met recently someone who can be very kind and loving and at another time can be very unkind and selfish.  When he is kind, he looks happy and relaxed.  When he is frustrated or focused on himself, he can appear arrogant or rude.  These acts can separate him from others by what seems a thousand miles.  What is the sense of a lot of material benefits if this leads to loneliness or sadness?